Make Time for Each Other

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.” --Genesis 2:24

How long has it been since you and your spouse had a date night? I know. It’s been a while, and you don’t see it happening anytime soon because life is so busy. But, if we check our priorities, are they in the right order? Be honest, is this yours right now: 1. Kids 2. Work 3. Home 4. Spouse? That’s okay, you don’t have to admit it. For most of us, that is the order, and that’s why we don’t have time for our partner. Life is so much busier now with so many things competing for our time-- work, kids, social media, television, extra-curricular activities...

{MY LESSON}
 

I came to the realization one day that we spend more time with people on our job than we do at home with our own spouse—sobering! So as life continues to demand more out of us, we have to be intentional about spending time with our spouse.  Tristen and I have a weekly standing appointment every Thursday for date night. It’s not always at a fancy restaurant. In fact, it’s usually at home with our favorite takeout in front of one of our Netflix shows. If you have small children, your date night may start after the kids are down for bed. Sharing a bowl of ice cream or a nice cup of tea with your honey snuggled up in bed is just as effective. It’s all about intentionally carving out time out of your day to spend with your husband. The key to this is agreeing on a night to schedule your date, and STICKING TO IT!

{PUT IT INTO ACTION}

 

1.     LEARN TO SAY “NO.” It’s okay. You cannot be everything to everyone, nor does God expect for you to be. I personally struggled in this area, so I can speak first-hand to it. Initially, it won’t feel right to say “NO” because you’re so used to saying “YES”. But know that it doesn’t make you any less of a person to say no. This also applies to your children!

2.     STOP TRYING TO KEEP UP. Yep, we’re all guilty of it—trying to keep up with the Joneses. You want the nice cars and the big house like them, but you have NO IDEA what it took for them to acquire them. If gaining these material things require you to work yourself to death and to spend excessive amounts of time away from your family, it’s not worth it.

 

3.     PRIORITIZE. Before starting your day, make a list of your priority items that must get done that day. Limit it to no more than 5 items, if you can. Make sure your partner is listed somewhere on that list—whether it be picking up his dry cleaning, preparing a meal before he gets home, or calling to check on him at least once that day. He needs to know that he’s on your daily list of priorities.

 

4.     KEEP YOUR COMMITMENTS WITH ONE ANOTHER. If you schedule a date night with one another, do everything you can to keep that commitment. Sure, things do come up, but consider rescheduling the conflicting appointment before rescheduling your date night.

Become intentional about spending time with your life partner. Just implementing these four practices will help you to quickly regain control over how you prioritize your time allow you to share more of it with the one who matters most, your spouse.

 

Make time for each other. The world can wait.

Credit: http://abiblicalmarriage.com/making-your-husband-a-priority/

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